The Journal of Best Practices - David Finch

The Journal of Best Practices

By David Finch

  • Release Date: 2012-01-03
  • Genre: Biographies & Memoirs
Score: 4.5
4.5
From 215 Ratings

Description

*A New York Times Bestseller*
A warm and hilarious memoir by a man diagnosed with Asperger syndrome who sets out to save his relationship.

Five years after David Finch married Kristen, the love of his life, they learned that he has Asperger syndrome. The diagnosis explained David’s ever-growing list of quirks and compulsions, but it didn’t make him any easier to live with.

Determined to change, David set out to understand Asperger syndrome and learn to be a better husband with an endearing zeal. His methods for improving his marriage involve excessive note-taking, performance reviews, and most of all, the Journal of Best Practices: a collection of hundreds of maxims and hard-won epiphanies, including “Don’t change the radio station when she’s singing along” and “Apologies do not count when you shout them.” David transforms himself from the world’s most trying husband to the husband who tries the hardest. He becomes the husband he’d always meant to be.

Filled with humor and wisdom, The Journal of Best Practices is a candid story of ruthless self-improvement, a unique window into living with an autism spectrum condition, and proof that a true heart is the key to happy marriage.

Reviews

  • Illuminating

    5
    By Kerry Kardashian
    Funny, insightful. Funniest part: roommate descriptions. Brilliant. Most useful for me, the insight into egocentrism and insistence on familiarity. Thanks for the peek inside your head. It will help me with my son.
  • Great insight on a puzzle

    5
    By Angela M.
    I'm a teacher. I have been blessed with several Aspergians over my career. I find 99% to be genuine, loving, children incapable of telling a lie who strive for acceptance of others. This book made me laugh and cry. It also made me realize how much I love my marriage regardless of our quirks and spats. Kudos on a great book! Thanks to whatever magazine was featuring it that caught my eye at the doctors. I bought it while sitting in the waiting room. :-)
  • the Journal of Best Practices

    5
    By RonMacSte
    Wow! This book is a must for anyone whose life has been touched by Asperger's Syndrome. It is humorous and touching, but above all makes sense of my thirty years of being married to an Aspy.
  • The Journal of Best Practices

    5
    By Am Gr8ful
    On every page I could find something to relate to! We have struggled in a similar situation for twenty years and finally David's descriptions of himself make sense to me. His story helps me understand my husband's behavior. Now I hope my husband will be similarly motivated to work on some things. I thought some of his behaviors were willful, now I understand them differently. Is there a source for more help?
  • Kudos

    5
    By Belliemay
    I teach challenged folks of all ages how to ride a horse. Whether the challenge is cognitive or physical in nature, the therapeutic benefits of horsemanship are tenfold. As I read this book and glimpsed into the complicated process by which the author transformed himself, I am convinced that sheer tenacity and the will power to achieve change for the sake of love can master just about anything. Small victories are a routine part of my day with my students. High-five to the author. You are quite the inspiration!
  • Journal of best practices

    3
    By Toto's friend
    Funny, sad, poignant, frustrating. Really opened a new world for me --- will have more compassion for others!
  • The Journal of Best PrActices

    5
    By Cc93430
    Best book I have read this year. I do not have the disease, Aspurger syndrome but this book improved my marriage. Thank you!

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